I rage quit Upgoat over a year ago due to a couple of problem children on the forum but I kept up as anon afterwards. Looks like it's tanking soon so I thought I'd pop in. Hi all! and Neri...
Openly call them gay. There is a problem that some people's main purpose for web interaction is user drama. That's not what this place is about. User drama is gay and both sides of it are just homos.
But do you know what I do that's different. I have an actual conversation with people. Some people create an infinite list of rules. Others create a vague list that technically let's them ban anyone. Some people ban the second they dislike them (AOU).
If I see a problem that is actually site wrecking (rare) I just message them, get them to understand my side, ask if they can improve, and if they can't yeah, banned. I did it to carnold when he was taking over the front page every day with reposts.
Jason, the system manager of Upgoat.net appears to be growing tired of doing it. He might stay around for a bit after all. Those of us who came over from Voat, dislike how voat closed, and wish upgoat well.
You can share this with the Upgoat folks to ponder upon.
So far I haven't seen a site close that actually needed to.
The problem is "ownership", poor management, and egos.
All forum communities are built by the members. Otherwise it's just a dude on an island alone masturbating. If people go to that island, the dude may own the island, maintain the landscaping, and curate the artwork - but it's stupid and selfish if he think he owns the community.
If he/she gets tired of managing everything himself he should build a trusted team and establish systems to help keep them aware of all the important aspects rather than get caught up in the details and drudgery. If he can't do that, then it's all on him, and I have no sympathy for idiots (like magnora7 who wasted SaidIt.net's great potential) who take it all on their shoulders alone and bitch about it.
Owners/admins who won't get a team and systems aren't worthy of hosting community even if technically they can. Even a tech-savvy person can recruit folks with management skills - or folks who can find folks with management skills. Ideally FOEPATCHISM.
If the owners/admins refuse to embrace FOEPATCHISM for whatever reasons and can't handle their job they should hand the keys to the community over to someone(s) who can. Choose a successor, have an election, sell it by auction, or figure out whatever it takes to not kill the community. The great failure and shame is on the owners/admins who would rather burn the whole thing down than give it up. Selfish dicks.
Full disclosure: I am a dude with an island, LeverMind.net, thanks to help from x0x7 and LarrySwinger. Not open yet. I'm still working on the first draft of the constitution for it - the foundation for a bottom-up community self-managed forum. I have the island. I will ban people when necessary. But I never want to be judge or jury - or caught up in every detail of every day - and will delegate responsibilities to our open trusted team welcoming community input. Unburden the admins. Let the community rule itself. Many like-minds are greater than one ego.
I know you didn't say it directly but I'll address it now. I am not problem child. I left Upgoat because of the problem children. I mainly lurk for the lols.
With community input and acceptance of their role, the community oversight trusted-team will handle problems and collectively come to decisions about them - on LeverMind. They can make guides and rules, vague or not, as they see fit.
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What's the story with Upgoat? Beginning, middle, end. I know nothing about it.
I escaped SaidIt to here, discovered SaidIt via truth-seeking but was never was a Redditor.
@x0x7, how will you handle problem children here?
Openly call them gay. There is a problem that some people's main purpose for web interaction is user drama. That's not what this place is about. User drama is gay and both sides of it are just homos.
But do you know what I do that's different. I have an actual conversation with people. Some people create an infinite list of rules. Others create a vague list that technically let's them ban anyone. Some people ban the second they dislike them (AOU).
If I see a problem that is actually site wrecking (rare) I just message them, get them to understand my side, ask if they can improve, and if they can't yeah, banned. I did it to carnold when he was taking over the front page every day with reposts.
That requires a lot of patience, time, motivation, and the ability to handle it all.
Growth and other pressures will diminish that.
Jason, the system manager of Upgoat.net appears to be growing tired of doing it. He might stay around for a bit after all. Those of us who came over from Voat, dislike how voat closed, and wish upgoat well.
Thanks for the clarification.
You can share this with the Upgoat folks to ponder upon.
So far I haven't seen a site close that actually needed to.
The problem is "ownership", poor management, and egos.
All forum communities are built by the members. Otherwise it's just a dude on an island alone masturbating. If people go to that island, the dude may own the island, maintain the landscaping, and curate the artwork - but it's stupid and selfish if he think he owns the community.
If he/she gets tired of managing everything himself he should build a trusted team and establish systems to help keep them aware of all the important aspects rather than get caught up in the details and drudgery. If he can't do that, then it's all on him, and I have no sympathy for idiots (like magnora7 who wasted SaidIt.net's great potential) who take it all on their shoulders alone and bitch about it.
Owners/admins who won't get a team and systems aren't worthy of hosting community even if technically they can. Even a tech-savvy person can recruit folks with management skills - or folks who can find folks with management skills. Ideally FOEPATCHISM.
http://Projex.Wiki/wiki/FOEPATCHISM
If the owners/admins refuse to embrace FOEPATCHISM for whatever reasons and can't handle their job they should hand the keys to the community over to someone(s) who can. Choose a successor, have an election, sell it by auction, or figure out whatever it takes to not kill the community. The great failure and shame is on the owners/admins who would rather burn the whole thing down than give it up. Selfish dicks.
Full disclosure: I am a dude with an island, LeverMind.net, thanks to help from x0x7 and LarrySwinger. Not open yet. I'm still working on the first draft of the constitution for it - the foundation for a bottom-up community self-managed forum. I have the island. I will ban people when necessary. But I never want to be judge or jury - or caught up in every detail of every day - and will delegate responsibilities to our open trusted team welcoming community input. Unburden the admins. Let the community rule itself. Many like-minds are greater than one ego.
I know you didn't say it directly but I'll address it now. I am not problem child. I left Upgoat because of the problem children. I mainly lurk for the lols.
Yeah, how will you handle Musky?
I'd rather not.
I have no time for asstrolls.
With community input and acceptance of their role, the community oversight trusted-team will handle problems and collectively come to decisions about them - on LeverMind. They can make guides and rules, vague or not, as they see fit.
I think we want more Musky.
I dislike bulls in china shops as much as asstrolls, bots, sealions, shills, spammers, and timesucks.
I don't know what a sealion is.
But you forgot sea urchins. Those are the worst.
Last year I reminded James Corbett of sealioning and got mentioned twice for it.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sealioning
https://duckduckgo.com/?q=Sealioning
https://projex.wiki/wiki/Terminology#S
https://saidit.net/s/Terminology/comments/8f81/sealioning_a_harassment_tactic_under_the_guise_of/
Sea urchins are edible, but not walkable.
Have you ever had raw sea urchin? I have.
Any chance you can build a "Comments" feed? Please?
Without your response bringing me here I would never have discovered many the discussions under this post. Who knows how much else we're all missing?
No. I generally avoid seafood.
How was it?
Pussy meat. Hurtful, damn hurtful!
I know Neri is here somewhere. That gave me a chuckle, pee hole.
Oh he's here, I guarantee
That's the rumour but...
Toughen up or GTFO!
Hello kind sir. Believe you have to write a poem or something
Insane Haiku Wrapped In Plastic
Hey there crazy man
In cellophane underpants
I can see yer nuts
Ok, here goes...
There once was a lady named Alice
Who used dynamite as a phallus
They found her vagina
In North Carolina
And bits of her tits in Dallas
How did I do?
Great, very funny. The rhythm needs fixing though.
There once was a lady named Alice
Who used dynamite sticks as a phallus
They found her vagina
In North Carolina
And bits of her tits back in Dallas.
Personally I think both work but I might be uncultured.
I consider myself classy white trash
Aye that'll do lad
Improved.
Looking for an outpost if upgoat falls
I'm here 'cos I'm a tech-head. Military stuff.
Hi dude.
I just made an upgoat account, some of their users are so goddamned tedious.
Welcome to the Matrix, don't take the brown lsd.
SUP NIGGUH